Thoughts Of Happiness As a Permanent State

I am moved to post this when i think of a friend of mine who blogged  a true life event which is somewhat devastating to the world. Well, not the WORLD world, just HER world. But still, it's fucked. Such is the synopsis :

Her friend is marrying a guy as soon as possible cause there's a bitch keep seducing her future-to-be-ex-husband.

The link is here, CLICK Away

WARNING:
It's in Malay for those who's not familiar with our mother tongue. (More like mother finger. )


 So, what went wrong? Nothing except now she's filing a divorce while being pregnant cause she finds out her husband has already eloped with the bitch. Skanky bitch FTW.

And now, did you see what went wrong. Let's start slowly.

1. Marriage is the happy ending.

2. That's it.

So, as the title said, this is the piece of advice i wrote; which i have geniusly saved earlier cause i knew i am going to need this. In her case, she thought of marriage as a happy ending. It's just a fucking prelude. Use this piece of advice on yourselves or your loved ones when you faces some hardship, or when you're about to make some of the nastiest decision you ever thought of.

 

Happiness isn't an eternal state. There IS NO HAPPY ENDING. You don't go on a vacation for 3 days 2 nights to find true happiness on the last night. The WHOLE vacation is your happiness. The journey towards the ending IS happiness for the ending is only DEATH.

Happiness is a process, the journey. Happiness isn't the grand ball dancing on your wedding. That's only a pit stop. Happiness is a process, a million of little things, every little detail in everyday life always on the flux, ever-changing, never ending cycle repeating over and over again through your lifespan.

Now does happiness seems so hard to be achieved? It might. That’s why happiness is worth it. Nothing is worth its value if it’s so easily given. So now, make your move. Do not see each obstacle as the end of your life. Obstacle is only a corner of a road. If you drive along, you will be just fine. Don't be so lazy as not to steer your car at all. So, drive carefully.  Reach your destination. Live life.

P/S: Oh, and for those who are skeptical of me, do Google this quotes, you won't find a fucking copy cause this all comes from my brain. You, retard.